Meaning of We dont need a list of rights and wrongs, tables of dos and donts: we need books, time, and silence. Thou shalt not is soon forgotten, but Once upon a time lasts forever. Quote by Philip Pullman.
It was not intentional that they be harmed in any way. They were not responsible. We love them, wish them well.
The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself.